I got your PM. Thanks. I had this huge responce to you and couldn't send it because it was to long. Hee hee.
I better explain something here. I went to school for veterinary technology and used to work for a vet before I had children (people seem to forget that and treat me like I don't have a clue). Antibiotics don't work. We have been down that road two or three times now after the vet has shaved him. Charged us a crap load of money for the visit, shaving him, drugs, blah blah blah and it doesn't help.
This is the same cat who NEVER sprayed anything while intact (the biggest "problem" with him before he was casterated was all the kittens we had. LOL), never fought with any of the other male cats, would not go outside for any reason (and we laugh now about the irony of the one time he did go outside), and was just a totaly mellow cat couch potato. This is the same cat that my oldest daughter treats like a dog and comes when he is called (now how many cats do that? hee hee). Has never eaten table food (won't touch it even if he was starving), wouldn't know what to do with a mouse if it came up in bit him in the butt. Just has always acted very non-catlike.
I had him casterated mainly because we didn't want a ton more of kittens, and I couldn't argue with the vet and his medical logic on why it shouldn't be done. But all the while I had a bad feeling about having it done. Leave it to me to have the one cat that went neurotic from it all. (not that our other
male cat is normal either...he sleeps in the garbage can with the garbage and has this thing with his tail. I don't know how else to describe it, but it is almost like the thing makes him paranoid. Goofy animal.)
Anyway. we are looking for a new vet.
There were two doctors in the practice where we were going and when I would go in there with the cat I would see one dr. but my husband always seen the other one with the same cat. Go figure. My husband has nothing nice to say about the one that he delt with (and I think she is the one that did the surgery) but I liked the other one. He was nice enough and all...however, he had that complex that most drs in general have that "since you are in my office you don't know anything" and seemed really shocked when I could talk back to him and ask questions using all his $2 medical words.
Thanks again.
Georga