Oh Becky, been there believe me. I think that sometimes it is just best to take a deep breath, count to ten and not add more fuel to the fire.
There were a few occasions when I wrote a reply to certain topic...a whole page so to say..and you know what? I havenít posted it at all. The next day I actually felt so relieved that I didnít. I mean sometimes things are not so black and white...and there are times when both people could have valid points, although contradictory...if that makes any sense. And there are also times when something is a total BS...but I say to myself...fine, accept what you think it could be useful, disregard what you think is useless and sing your own tune...others donít have to sing it along with ya. If you know that youíre right, continue doing it your way, and let them do it their way.
It is actually very weird. I visit so many message boards and on some boards you could expect that people have different opinions, and that occasional cat fights may appear...but that doesnít happen, and you find a board to be the most pleasant place. On the other side you come to another board and think...we like the same things, weíre all here for similar reasons, we should all get along just fine...and there you find people that simply bring the worst in you. Very, very weird I say. *shrug*
Just stay cool