That was pretty much what I had thought, but then i'm reading about many people who have had sucessful bonding with a un-spayed female, with either another unspayed female or
neutered male.
Ani will be spayed, but I'm not sure when. I'm out of work right now so I have no money for extra bills Isn't it always the way? she couldn't have come to me a couple week earlier when I was still working and had the money to spay her :p
Anyways, thank you for all the information.
I'm kind of leaning towards just letting them see one another, and play in the same area's at different times, but no actual contact untill after she is spayed and healed up.
It will be a slow progress, and though I want Ani to be happy and have companionship, I also don't want my boys stressing over a girl either.
To bad they aren't like mice, clean the cage put a new one in and everyone is happy :p