Well just an update, it ended up raining all day yesterday (the sun was just out to trick me) but we had no accidents! At one stage Biscuit was really restless, like she needed to go to the toilet, but wouldn't go outside cause god forbid that it was wet so she went into her crate cause I know she won't go in there and when I let her back out she ran out and went to the toilet.
Today was sunny all day, finally! This morning and tonight she peed in front of me both times! She hasn't pood in front of me yet but I let her out to lie in the sun for a couple of hours this afternoon and I'm guessing she must have done one then.
I'm just glad that she is at least starting to feel comfortable to go to the toilet in front of me again. That's a big step! If she gets too restless in the house and won't go outside I'm going to crate her. I don't use it as a form of punishment, just as a way to break of her this habit. I can say to her 'go to bed' at the opposite end of the house and she will run and lie in bed and wait for me to come and close her in. If she gets too excited with visitors I'll tell her to go to bed and to stay there until she can behave. I don't yell at her, and I don't even close her door but she'll stay in bed for up to an hour sometimes and then comes out all calm and remembering her manners! So she really loves her bed and is happy to be there!
Denise we are trying to think of everything with all the animals and a baby. I mean the bunnies won't be affected cause no matter how busy I am I can let them out for their play time cause they don't need to be supervised but Biscuit and Milko are undergoing serious training!! Both Alex and I love to wrestle with Biscuit, with just our bodies, and yes she does play rough. she has two stuffed toys that she knows are hers (and doesn't touch any other stuffed toy in the house) and so I've already started using that to play with, and I've started poking her in the ribs, pulling her ears, her tail etc. while playing and teaching her that no matter what she is to stay focused on that toy, and not turn around to wrestle us. She already knows that settle means game over and she immediately drops everything and sits down and looks straight at whoever gives the command so at least that's one covered but I don't think a toddler will appreciate being wrestled by our little ball of muscle!

If Cindy is still with us she is old and slow so we don't need to worry about her playing or anything. cindy has never lived with a cat and used to think that cats were a great chasing toy. Well she lives with Milko mainly in harmony. He will bite the end of her tail and she ignores him for a while but once she's had enough she gives him a warning snap. He now just stares and looks at her cause he knows she isn't going to bite and she has had plenty of oppurtunities to rip his head off but it's just not her. She never ever ever snaps at humans either so I really think that as long as she smells the baby she'll be fine. She honestly just sleeps all day and wil come and ask for a pat if she feels lonely but after one or two minutes she walks off. She's content just being a part of a household and as long as she is fed and gets that little pat (she gets more than that but she generally gets up and walks off as if to say leave me alone) she's one happy girl.
Man I can rave on can't I!!

I guess I just want everyone to know that we aren't just going to 'see what happens and deal with it then.' I don't work anymore, I have lots of hours to think up scenarios and ways to avoid them in the first place! haha