Well thank you Amethystbelle and Degu crazy all good advice I have them side by side now and they are making their little noises at each other, Ame that was a good idea next week I will switch sides and let them pick up each others scents. I however have already tried the sand, vanilla and unfamiliar territory. None worked but I think this will. And as for my boy and girl that is how they came I got them from a pet store so that is how I am going to leave them as they are very close and bonded, in the event something happens to her I will get another male to put with him,but she seems to be doing fine eating well drinking well and exercising. Thank you both I appreciate it.