I don't mean this post to sound like a flame, but I don't think bobcats make great pets.
I have a friend who is really into raising exotic animals. She has successfully domesticated 2 brown bears, red foxes, fennic foxes, codimundi, all kinds of other wild animals that I can't think of right now. My friend acquired the bobcat when she was just a kitten, and the kitten was the most adorable pet they had. When the kitten reached adulthood, however, it became combative with anything that got near her. She sent my friend to the hospital with cuts on the hand going down to the bone.
I would just suggest doing a whole lot of research on getting a big cat before you commit yourself to domesticating an animal like that.