As Dragonrain said, your best bet is probably going to be a neutered male, and to try to do all three at once. Ideally, you need to find a rabbit rescue in your area and ask to do some bunny dating and for some support during the process. Also, be prepared for the long haul, sometimes bonding can take months.
We are as gods to the beasts of the fields. We order the time o' their birth and the time o' their death. Between times, we ha' a duty. - Terry Pratchett.
"Men have forgotten this truth", said the fox, "But you must not forget it. You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed. - Antoine de Saint-Exupéry