Originally Posted by terrylynnn9
If something I said bothered you in some way I'm sorry, primarily I guess I was thinking about your kittys more so than your feelings. I cant imagine how my dogs would feel if I did that, I couldnt, for my own peace of mind ever live in a place where my whole family couldnt live. I know your circumstances may be more dire than mine so Im not judging you in any way since I don't know your circumstances, just saying how I feel.
I have gotten lots of moral support on problems I have posted and I appreciate it, even if someone cannot offer a solution, they still like to offer their best wishes and moral support, Im sorry if you dont want to hear from anyone unless they can solve your problem. I certainly did not mean to hurt your feelings in any way.
Ok, I was going to keep my mouth shut and just not reply but that was 'the straw'.
I couldnt, for my own peace of mind ever live in a place where my whole family couldnt live.
Well aren't we a hero! See I have a family, and either we all live together and have to find foster care for our cats, or we live apart from my husband for that year. I know all you die hard pet fanatics are probably gonna faint when you hear this, but my husband is more important to me than anything or anyone else in this world. If it was him or pets, the pets would go. Hands down, no questions asked. So finding my kitties a temp place to live until we can find somewhere that does allow them is my
peace of mind.
Since ya'll are so intent on knowing my business, we are relocating out of state. This is not something I asked for, my husband is in the military. We have a 12 month lease and at the end of that lease we are going to find a new place. There is nothing I can do about it right now, except find boarding or foster care. If there was anyway at all that they could come, I sure wouldn't be here wasting my time asking for help.
As for not judging, save it. That's exactly what you were doing otherwise you wouldn't have responded in the way you did. Moral support? Didn't hear anything of the sort. You even said...
primarily I guess I was thinking about your kittys more so than your feelings. I cant imagine how my dogs would feel if I did that,
Didn't expect anything less. I appreciate your concern for my cats.
I don't have the time, energy or patience to keep this up. I will not try to defend myself, this is what needs to be done. Like I said before, at this point the only other alternative is to relinquish them to a shelter and never see them again. Wouldn't that be lovely. Wonder how much moral support I'll recieve if that happens?
I'm angry, very angry. If I say anything more, it will
be ban worthy. Yes, I only wanted replies to my question otherwise I would have asked for your thoughts. I don't care if anyone does reply to it now, it was obviously a mistake to post it here in the first place.