It usually is with us as well, we have been together for 6 years and we dont ever hardly argue, but this he wont budge on. I dont know what to do. I have a second job that would cover the costs of a dog, and Every time I bring it up (which lately has become more and more often) He immidiately says no. Usually I can get him to atleast discuss something, and we decide then, but I am down to plain old saying, I want a dog, and I think I have waited long enough. It hasnt helped that two of my close friends just got dogs a month ago. I just dont know what to do.