Argh Where to start ok ok.deep breathe, breathe breathe breathe. now let it all out......People annoy me in this case one couple in particulair.Soo this is how it started 5 days a go a girl i know from when i was younger came onto msn, and needed someone to talk to , so i just listened, she wanted to leave her husband of 6 years to be with a man that she had always been in love with but didn't know how to get a hold of that person. She then managed to find that other man on facebook, She asked for my advice and I personally don't think her and her husband should be togethier as he is very manipulative, But I did not tell her this, I simply said that her heart knows whats best for her, For 3 days straight she contineaud to tell me how she is leaving her husband for this man, Last night she came online with a diffrent tune.....Her and her husband arent breaking up they have decided to try for a child,:timeout:this drew a red flagg for me but again I didnt say anything and just listened to how excited she was about this ect, Then after a few hours of chatting I asked her why the sudden change she said because a baby would make there whole relationship work,,,,and asked me what i thought of it, So i did express my concern, that a baby is not a doll you cant just make it go away when she and her husband dont work no more and she said i worry to much so i stayed quite. Today she came online and asked me to contineau what i was saying yesturday,so i asked her if she was sure she wanted to hear it she said yes. So i contineaud I said wouldnt it be better if her and her husband worked on there relationship issues first before bringing a child into this world ? that a baby will not make things better if anything it might make it worst as a baby is alot of responsability.....so she says she has to go and signs off, it stayed like that till tonight Tonight she came online and said that I hurt her feelings that i think she is incompant to raise a child I never said that i explained that I only have concerns as it wouldnt be fair for a child if the parents are always fighting, She then told me it was none of my business, which i told her I fully agreed that it wasnt, but i also said if she didnt want to know she shouldnt of ask.Then she goes on to say that if her husband cant have kids that they plan to do artificial insimanation which im not against at all but.....she said she planned to use someone who is with her mom right now as the donner............:noway:this man has been a step father to her since she was 3 years old......To me this was just odd. But I didnt tell her that....she said and if her and her husband break up her mom could always raise the kid and she could always try for another kid later on, but anyways the thing that drives me nuts is she thinks having a child will make her relationship better her husband is abusive a cheater and very manipulative i dont feel having a child in anyway will make this relationship better, I was just wondering, what your guys opnion is on this...