This is a hard one because sometimes it is hard to know how much or little pain your mouse is in, but it is very possible that the tumors are not painful, especially if she is active, eating, playing, running on her wheel and so forth. The signs don't seem to indicate that she is in pain, but of course a vet would be able to determine this better. If she was lethargic, listless and not interested in her activities or food, then that would be a solid sign that she is in pain. One of my gerbil boys, Mick, got a tumor, pretty big one, in his tummy area and it made him look pregnant actually, and when I took him to our local small animal vet, she examined him, did an ultrasound and after I told her he was happy, eating, playing, and doing all of his normal activities, she agreed after seeing the ultrasound and examining him, that although the tumor was big, he was not in pain. Due to Mick's age (he was getting pretty elderly) she said that a surgery would be a huge stress on him, due to his age and that since he was otherwise happy and content, to just let him be and enjoy his remaining time at home, rather than put him through the trauma, and possible complications with anesthesia. So that is what we did, and he had many more months of being happy and playing at home with his brother. (If he had ever shown the slightest sign of not being comfortable or suffering, of course we would have him put to sleep, just so you know. Animals should never ever suffer.) So, you might want to have her examined by your vet to get his/her opinion on this, but I think putting her to sleep when she seems to be a happy and active mouse would be premature. She sounds like a sweetheart by the way and I am sure you love her very much! 